The Laughter Advantage

Put your laugh on the line!

Anthony Ackroyd - Tuesday, March 29, 2011

Pssst…how’s your laugh life? Are you getting enough? It’s a personal question but since no one is watching, come on, why not answer honestly?

Imagine you are standing up and that a line is extending out in front of you. The line is about the length of a bowling alley but at the end of the line there are not ten pins but a flagpole sporting a bright blue flag fluttering gently in the wind at head height.

This line is your life’s laugh line and you will use it to get an idea of how much laughter you currently experience in your life. When I give my “Laugh for Life!” workshop I have people physically walk along that line but you can do it now in your imagination.

In a moment you will mentally walk out and position yourself at some point along your line that represents how much laughter, humour, fun, and play you feel you are currently experiencing in your life. Of course each day of our lives has a different level of laughter but you are going to position yourself at a point that you feel represents your average daily amount.

So for example if you were to position yourself right next to the flag you are saying that your life is jam packed with laughter and you could not imagine possibly fitting more in. Your laugh life is perfect. If your feet don’t even move that means you have zero laughter in your life at the moment. Half way down the line would indicate that you get a moderate dose of daily laughter. You get the idea but remember you can stand anywhere on the line that seems about right.

Okay, ready to walk your laughter line? Be truthful with yourself but don’t be judgmental. It’s not a competition and wherever you are on that line just happens to be where you are right now. What we are after here is helpful self-knowledge so why not humour me and do this little mental exercise!

So, here goes. Gently close your eyes, see the line with the blue flag at the end, and in your imagination walk out to any position on the line that represents the current level of laughter, humour, fun, and play that you experience day to day. Do it now and I’ll be right here when you finish the exercise.

Where did you end up on your line? Were you surprised? Pleased? Disappointed?

I first did this exercise for a seminar group 17 years ago and since then one thing has changed and one has remained consistent.

The thing that has changed is that, although there is always a spread of positions on the line, over the years a larger number of people have begun to clump below the halfway mark. Are we laughing less these days? Yes, seems to be the answer. A study by Dr. Michael Titze (ah, yes, his real name), a German psychologist reported that in the 1950s people laughed on average 18 minutes a day, and today the average is 4-6 minutes.

The thing that has remained consistent over 17 years is that when I continue with the exercise and ask people to position themselves where they would actually like to be on the line everyone moves further towards the blue flag. Everyone wants more laughter in their lives. And the very good news is that this is definitely achievable.

My entire adult life has been about helping people move further down that line towards more laughter, humour, play, and fun. I’ve done this as a comedian, a clown doctor, a speaker, and a writer. I’m passionate about this mission because I believe that the further society is down that line the happier we all become and the happier our world becomes.

So I’m launching this blog in the hope that I can help you advance in the direction of a life filled with increasing amounts of laughter.

I know that incorporating more of the positive energy of play, fun, and humour into your life will make you happier and more successful in your career. It will make you more successful in relationships and it will help you become wealthier.

I know all this not just because evidence based research proves it, but because I have seen all these results happen for people time and time again during my thirty years of experience in the laughter business.

Becoming what I call a good humoured human is probably the best thing we can do for ourselves. So I hope you will join me regularly for these blogs. I encourage you to subscribe so you don’t miss anything.

I’d also love to hear your thoughts so please post your comments. And let me know if there are particular topics you are interested in relating to comedy, laughter, humour, and play that you would like to have discussed and learn more about.

As Woody Allen said “I am thankful for laughter except when milk comes out of my nose.” And even then it’s pretty damn wonderful!

Laughingly yours, Anthony

©Anthony Ackroyd 2011


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Peter Ackroyd commented on 01-Apr-2011 08:47 PM
I laugh as much as I can, even if others say I'm silly. I personally don't care. Today is April fools Day and I'm a teacher. I said to the kids that today was the first day of the month so one of my students pinched and pumped me gently in the upper arm and I turned to him with a straight face and then pulled out my detention book. I wrote down his name, asked for his home room and then where it said, "What is the detention for" I wrote down "For being an April Fool" Didn't the kid laugh and his friend's laughed even harder knowing I got him. TREAT EVERYONE LIKE AS IF IT IS APRIL FOOLS DAY EVERY DAY. That is my way of looking at life.
Brett commented on 01-Apr-2011 08:53 PM
I couldn't agree more that laughter is good for you, and we all should try to laugh more. When I'm a bit low on laughs, I cheat a bit. I've raided sites, like the BBC for example, and found many funny radio shows to podcast. I've also ripped all my comedy albums to mp3. When I have to do something exciting like hang out washing or do dishes, I listen to funny people being funny while I work. I almost look forward to doing that stuff now.
Almost.
Hugh commented on 03-Apr-2011 10:45 AM
Laugh at or Laugh with?

Anthony, is it healthy to spend 18 minutes a day laughing at people?

Are there different qualities of laughter? Does some sustain and some actually increase unhappiness.

Samantha Banfield - Witty Sam commented on 03-Apr-2011 03:11 PM
What a great opening first post. I've been blogging crap for about 4 years now & my first post was a bunch of crap compared to this insightful post. I'm not sucking up here... just being honest. I think I mentioned something about Google Earth, Lazy Susan and a pot party. Crazy crap... but I just a bunch of stuff that was in my head at the time. Most of the stuff in my head is crazy... I live in a weird & funny world of my own creation... or someone else's creation. I could be some freakin alien... all I do know is that I aint normal. And I love it...

But you know what would make a great post... as you asked for any suggestions is this: How does funny people co-inhabitate with the rest of the human race? Fitting in is real hard to do when you are always seeing the funny side of life... all I can do is funny. And that's it. I'm a creative being that has no place to go. (Uh oh getting deep now...)

So the other thing I wish is that random names wouldn't just pop into my head for no reason... I mean, why Julie Newmare?
John Mulvey commented on 05-Apr-2011 10:19 AM
As always, Ackroyd has presented clear and meaningful words of wisdom and joy. Anthony's insights are like a compass point in the back: sharp, awakening and didactic. Keep the blue flag flying high as a banner to the doom and gloomsters. Rock on Tony!
Anonymous commented on 05-Apr-2011 12:26 PM
thought provoking stuff... I do wonder whether our impulse to stay connected 24/7 actually takes the fun out of the day... You remind us that humour is a choice...
Chris Cloran commented on 05-Apr-2011 08:14 PM
For some strange reason I read your words above backwards and they made sense! What I love about your work is that you are up for having as much fun as possible with everyone! You inspire me to lighten up and let in more laughter to otherwise dusty dark corners...good thinking!
Sarah Powell commented on 06-Apr-2011 10:00 AM
In a world that is becoming more strained with rules and litigation, here here!
Beth Thompson commented on 11-Apr-2011 12:52 PM
Love your thinking,love the activity along the line-perhaps we are losing our own performing skills as we depend on the brilliance we see in the media?? At teacher training in the 60's we had to perform, be funny and or incredibly stupid -we did it well-strip teasing behind the back lit sheet to stripper music thinking the leotards underneath were obvious.Gleefully for our phys ed teacher audience they were not and our fit young curves aroused great hilarity as we bumped and ground our way through the moves-I hold great hopes for utube our latest amateur performance venue.
Shelley Clarke commented on 11-Apr-2011 03:16 PM
Thanks, Anthony : )

What a brilliant life purpose/mission to have!
Wishing you lots of fun as well as great success.

Still miss our Mawson Club nights but still smile when remembering them.

Hugs, Shelley x
sara commented on 11-Apr-2011 06:00 PM
Glad to have been led to this site. Looking forward to a few laughs. It is hard finding them on your own.
Anonymous commented on 11-Apr-2011 07:52 PM
As a teacher, it's essential for me to laugh at myself when I make mistakes (regularly) and with my students when they do too. Laughing and learning and making it fun!
Kaaren commented on 14-Apr-2011 07:43 AM
Brilliant Anthony - I loved this! Time to measure a dose of giggles just the same as my extra vitamin intake today. Yes I confess I want, no Need, more laughter in my life daily. Can you invent a 'laughometer' for me to measure the quantity of giggles?
Maybe with a special giggle-ometer attached to measure the richter scale of side splitting belly laughs I attain?
Melinda commented on 24-Apr-2011 06:18 PM
Here here! I can get so serious rushing around for my job, my study, my family...I sometimes forget to just lighten up and have a giggle. I am now headed to YouTube for a dose of comedy! Thank you for the reminder :-)

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